4Grammar and explanations
Asking someone to do something: a reminder
You met the imperatives in lesson 66. The bare stem is the short, direct form (Ор! "Come in!"), the doubled stem is warm and welcoming (Ор, ор!), and –аарай / –оорой / –ээрэй / –өөрэй is the polite form for anyone, above all for advice: Нар зөв яваарай. "Go round clockwise."
Don't: битгий
Mongolian has no negative imperative ending. You simply put битгий in front of the verb, and the verb keeps the form it had:
Битгий исгэр!don't whistle-IMP"Don't whistle!"
Босго битгий гишгээрэй!threshold don't step-IMP"Please don't step on the threshold!"
The register stays the same. Битгий исгэр! is blunt, for a child or a close friend; Битгий исгэрээрэй! is polite and safe with anyone. битгий stands right in front of the verb, so other words come before it: Гэрт битгий исгэрээрэй. "Don't whistle in the ger."
No need: –х хэрэггүй
In lesson 63 you learnt –х хэрэгтэй, "need to". Its opposite is –х хэрэггүй: the verb in –х, then хэрэггүй. It means "there is no need to", and it is also a gentle way of saying "don't".
Хаалга тогших хэрэггүй.door knock-PART need-NEG"There's no need to knock on the door."
Санаа зовох хэрэггүй.thought worry-PART need-NEG"Don't worry." (literally: "there is no need to worry")
| Need to | No need to |
|---|
| Тогших хэрэгтэй. (You need to knock.) | Тогших хэрэггүй. (No need to knock.) |
| Яарах хэрэгтэй. (We must hurry.) | Яарах хэрэггүй. (No need to hurry.) |
Which one to choose?
Use битгий for a real prohibition, something that must not happen: Босго битгий гишгээрэй! Use –х хэрэггүй when something is simply unnecessary, or to reassure: Санаа зовох хэрэггүй. And remember –ж болохгүй from lesson 65 for a rule: Босго гишгэж болохгүй. "You must not step on the threshold."
The rules of the ger in Mongolian
| Rule | In Mongolian |
|---|
| no need to knock | Хаалга тогших хэрэггүй. |
| don't step on the threshold | Босго битгий гишгээрэй. |
| go round clockwise | Нар зөв яваарай. |
| don't whistle inside | Гэрт битгий исгэрээрэй. |
| take things with the right hand | Баруун гараар аваарай. |
Go deeper in the grammar guide: Mongolian imperatives · Mongolian etiquette and gestures · Wanting and needing
5Good to know
нар зөв means "the sun's way". The door of a ger faces south, so the sun travels round the ger from east to west, clockwise, and people inside move the same way.
The back of the ger, opposite the door, is the place of honour, the хоймор of lesson 73, kept for elders and honoured guests. A visitor does not choose a seat: wait until your host shows you where to sit.