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A2 · ElementaryUnit 9: In the gerLesson 81 of 200

Ger etiquette

Goal: Know what to do and not to do in a ger.

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1Limba’s diary

LIMBA

Entering Dulmaa's ger the right way

This morning Dulmaa caught me making three mistakes in one minute. I knocked on the door of her ger, I stepped on the threshold, and once inside I started to whistle.

She laughed, but she also taught me the rules, one by one. You do not knock: you call out and come in. You step over the threshold, never on it. You move round the ger the way the sun moves. And you never whistle inside.

I have written them all in my notebook, with a big star next to each one.

2Dialogue

Limba
Эмээ, орж болох уу?Grandma, may I come in?
Дулмаа
Ор, ор! Хаалга тогших хэрэггүй.Come in, come in! There's no need to knock.
Limba
Уучлаарай. Канадад бид хаалга тогшдог.Sorry. In Canada we knock on doors.
Дулмаа
Зүгээр. Босго битгий гишгээрэй!That's all right. Don't step on the threshold!
Limba
Ойлголоо. Энд сууж болох уу?I see. May I sit here?
Дулмаа
Болно. Гэрт нар зөв яваарай.Yes. Inside the ger, always go round clockwise.
Дулмаа
Лимба, гэрт битгий исгэрээрэй!Limba, don't whistle in the ger!
Limba
Яагаад?Why?
Дулмаа
Энэ манай ёс. Санаа зовох хэрэггүй, чи сурна.It's our custom. Don't worry, you'll learn.
Limba
Баярлалаа, эмээ. Би дахиад исгэрэхгүй.Thank you, Grandma. I won't whistle again.

3Words in this lesson

MongolianEnglish
хаалгаdoor
тогшихto knock
хэрэггүйnot needed; after a verb in –х: there is no need to
битгийdon't (in front of a verb)
босгоthreshold, doorsill
гишгэхto step on
ойлгохto understand
нар зөвclockwise (literally: the sun's way)
исгэрэхto whistle
яагаадwhy
ёсcustom, the proper way
санаа зовохto worry
дахиадagain
зүгээрall right, fine

4Grammar and explanations

Asking someone to do something: a reminder

You met the imperatives in lesson 66. The bare stem is the short, direct form (Ор! "Come in!"), the doubled stem is warm and welcoming (Ор, ор!), and –аарай / –оорой / –ээрэй / –өөрэй is the polite form for anyone, above all for advice: Нар зөв яваарай. "Go round clockwise."

Don't: битгий

Mongolian has no negative imperative ending. You simply put битгий in front of the verb, and the verb keeps the form it had:

Битгий исгэр!don't whistle-IMP"Don't whistle!"
Босго битгий гишгээрэй!threshold don't step-IMP"Please don't step on the threshold!"

The register stays the same. Битгий исгэр! is blunt, for a child or a close friend; Битгий исгэрээрэй! is polite and safe with anyone. битгий stands right in front of the verb, so other words come before it: Гэрт битгий исгэрээрэй. "Don't whistle in the ger."

No need: –х хэрэггүй

In lesson 63 you learnt –х хэрэгтэй, "need to". Its opposite is –х хэрэггүй: the verb in –х, then хэрэггүй. It means "there is no need to", and it is also a gentle way of saying "don't".

Хаалга тогших хэрэггүй.door knock-PART need-NEG"There's no need to knock on the door."
Санаа зовох хэрэггүй.thought worry-PART need-NEG"Don't worry." (literally: "there is no need to worry")
Need toNo need to
Тогших хэрэгтэй. (You need to knock.)Тогших хэрэггүй. (No need to knock.)
Яарах хэрэгтэй. (We must hurry.)Яарах хэрэггүй. (No need to hurry.)

Which one to choose?

Use битгий for a real prohibition, something that must not happen: Босго битгий гишгээрэй! Use –х хэрэггүй when something is simply unnecessary, or to reassure: Санаа зовох хэрэггүй. And remember –ж болохгүй from lesson 65 for a rule: Босго гишгэж болохгүй. "You must not step on the threshold."

The rules of the ger in Mongolian

RuleIn Mongolian
no need to knockХаалга тогших хэрэггүй.
don't step on the thresholdБосго битгий гишгээрэй.
go round clockwiseНар зөв яваарай.
don't whistle insideГэрт битгий исгэрээрэй.
take things with the right handБаруун гараар аваарай.

Go deeper in the grammar guide: Mongolian imperatives · Mongolian etiquette and gestures · Wanting and needing

5Good to know

нар зөв means "the sun's way". The door of a ger faces south, so the sun travels round the ger from east to west, clockwise, and people inside move the same way.

The back of the ger, opposite the door, is the place of honour, the хоймор of lesson 73, kept for elders and honoured guests. A visitor does not choose a seat: wait until your host shows you where to sit.

6Exercises

Choose the right answer, then press Check my answers. Score 70% or more and the lesson is ticked on your course map.

  1. "Don't step on the threshold!" is…
  2. Where does битгий go?
  3. Хаалга тогших хэрэггүй means…
  4. "Don't worry" is…
  5. The polite way to say "Don't go!" is…
  6. How do you move round the inside of a ger?
  7. In the dialogue, why does Limba knock?
  8. Ор, ор!, with the stem said twice, is…
  9. –х хэрэгтэй and –х хэрэггүй mean…
  10. "Don't whistle in the ger!": Гэрт битгий ___!

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Write it yourself

Write your answer on paper or in your head first, then reveal the model answer.

  1. Say politely: "Don't sit here!"
    Show answerЭнд битгий суугаарай!
  2. Translate: "There's no need to knock."
    Show answerТогших хэрэггүй. / Хаалга тогших хэрэггүй.
  3. Translate: "Don't worry."
    Show answerСанаа зовох хэрэггүй.
  4. Translate: "Don't whistle in the ger!" (politely)
    Show answerГэрт битгий исгэрээрэй!
  5. Welcome a guest warmly: "Come in, come in!"
    Show answerОр, ор!

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Unit 9: In the ger A2

  1. 81Ger etiquette
  2. 82My own: the reflexive possessive
  3. 83And then: the converb -аад
  4. 84And: the converb -ж
  5. 85Saying 'that': гэж
  6. 86The particle нь
  7. 87Emphasis: шүү, даа, юм
  8. 88Isn't it?: биз дээ, тийм үү
  9. 89Who has?: минийх, чинийх
  10. 90Review: a week with herders
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