LIMBALIMBA
A2 · ElementaryUnit 9: In the gerLesson 82 of 200

My own: the reflexive possessive

Goal: Say 'my own', 'your own'.

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1Limba’s diary

LIMBA

Limba forgets a hat in the ger

This morning I went out to see the horses and left my hat on the bed in Dulmaa's ger. Ten minutes later my ears were frozen.

Nomin came running with the hat, but she did not put it on her own head to carry it: she held it carefully in her hands. A hat is not just clothing here, she told me. People say the soul lives in the hat, so you never wear someone else's, and you never throw one on the floor.

From now on, my hat stays on my head.

2Dialogue

Номин
Лимба, чи малгайгаа мартсан!Limba, you've forgotten your hat!
Limba
Тийм! Миний малгай хаана байна вэ?Oh yes! Where is my hat?
Номин
Эмээгийн гэрт, орон дээр. Хүлээ, энэ байна.In Grandma's ger, on the bed. Wait, here it is.
Limba
Баярлалаа! Би малгайгаа үргэлж мартдаг.Thanks! I always forget my hat.
Номин
Малгайгаа өмс, гадаа хүйтэн байна.Put your hat on, it's cold outside.
Limba
За. Бид одоо гол руу явах уу?OK. Are we going to the river now?
Номин
Тийм. Чи номоо авсан уу?Yes. Have you got your book?
Limba
Авсан. Ганбаатар хаана байна вэ?I have. Where is Ganbaatar?
Номин
Тэр гэртээ байна. Найзтайгаа ярьж байна.He's at home, talking with his friend.
Limba
За, явъя. Би малгайгаа мартахгүй!OK, let's go. I won't forget my hat!

3Words in this lesson

MongolianEnglish
малгайhat
мартахto forget
орbed (орон дээр: on the bed)
үргэлжalways
хүлээхto wait
өмсөхto put on, to wear (clothes, a hat)
гадааoutside
цүнхbag
хөлfoot, leg

4Grammar and explanations

One syllable for "own"

English says "I forgot my hat" and "he forgot his hat", changing the possessive word every time. Mongolian has a single ending that means "the subject's own", whoever the subject is. It goes at the very end of the noun.

Би малгайгаа мартсан.I hat-REFL forget-PAST"I forgot my hat."
Номин номоо авсан.Nomin book-REFL take-PAST"Nomin took her book."

This ending is called the reflexive possessive: "reflexive" because it points back to the subject of the sentence. In the first sentence the subject is би, so the hat is mine; in the second it is Номин, so the book is hers. No word for "my" or "her" is needed.

The four forms

The ending follows vowel harmony: –аа / –оо / –ээ / –өө. After a long vowel or a diphthong a г comes in first: –гаа / –гоо / –гээ / –гөө.

WordOwnMeaning
номномооone's own book
нэрнэрээone's own name
хөлхөлөөone's own feet
цүнхцүнхээone's own bag
малгаймалгайгааone's own hat
өрөөөрөөгөөone's own room

One word to learn by heart: морь gives морио, one's own horse.

On top of a case ending

The reflexive can also sit after a case ending. It always comes last.

Тэр гэртээ байна.he ger-DAT-REFL be-PRES-FUT"He is at (his) home."
Тэр найзтайгаа ярьж байна.he friend-COM-REFL talk-CONV be-PRES-FUT"He is talking with his friend."

Own, or someone else's?

The reflexive is not just a polite extra: it changes the meaning. Compare:

So when the thing belongs to the subject, use the reflexive and say nothing else. When it belongs to someone who is not the subject, use a possessive word such as миний, чиний or түүний.

With an order

In an order the subject is "you", so the reflexive means "your": Малгайгаа өмс! "Put your hat on!" Нэрээ бичээрэй. "Please write your name." This is the commonest place to hear it.

Go deeper in the grammar guide: The reflexive possessive · Mongolian etiquette and gestures

5Good to know

Nomin is right to carry the hat in her hands. People say the soul lives in a person's hat, so you never put on someone else's hat, even as a joke, and you never toss one, set one on the floor or step over one. Admiring a hat is fine; picking it up is not. A hat on a bed or a chest is where its owner put it, and it stays there.

6Exercises

Choose the right answer, then press Check my answers. Score 70% or more and the lesson is ticked on your course map.

  1. "I read my book": Би ___ уншсан.
  2. "Put your hat on!" is…
  3. "Please write your name": ___ бичээрэй.
  4. The reflexive form of малгай is…
  5. гэртээ is made of…
  6. "He is talking with his (own) friend" is…
  7. In the dialogue, where is Limba's hat?
  8. The reflexive possessive points back to…
  9. "One's own horse" is…
  10. After a long vowel or a diphthong, the reflexive brings in a…

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Write it yourself

Write your answer on paper or in your head first, then reveal the model answer.

  1. Say politely: "Please write your name."
    Show answerНэрээ бичээрэй.
  2. Translate: "I forgot my hat."
    Show answerБи малгайгаа мартсан.
  3. Translate: "Bat is at home."
    Show answerБат гэртээ байна.
  4. Ask a friend: "Have you got your book?"
    Show answerЧи номоо авсан уу?
  5. Say politely: "Drink your tea."
    Show answerЦайгаа уугаарай.

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Unit 9: In the ger A2

  1. 81Ger etiquette
  2. 82My own: the reflexive possessive
  3. 83And then: the converb -аад
  4. 84And: the converb -ж
  5. 85Saying 'that': гэж
  6. 86The particle нь
  7. 87Emphasis: шүү, даа, юм
  8. 88Isn't it?: биз дээ, тийм үү
  9. 89Who has?: минийх, чинийх
  10. 90Review: a week with herders
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