4Grammar and explanations
One syllable for "own"
English says "I forgot my hat" and "he forgot his hat", changing the possessive word every time. Mongolian has a single ending that means "the subject's own", whoever the subject is. It goes at the very end of the noun.
Би малгайгаа мартсан.I hat-REFL forget-PAST"I forgot my hat."
Номин номоо авсан.Nomin book-REFL take-PAST"Nomin took her book."
This ending is called the reflexive possessive: "reflexive" because it points back to the subject of the sentence. In the first sentence the subject is би, so the hat is mine; in the second it is Номин, so the book is hers. No word for "my" or "her" is needed.
The four forms
The ending follows vowel harmony: –аа / –оо / –ээ / –өө. After a long vowel or a diphthong a г comes in first: –гаа / –гоо / –гээ / –гөө.
| Word | Own | Meaning |
|---|
| ном | номоо | one's own book |
| нэр | нэрээ | one's own name |
| хөл | хөлөө | one's own feet |
| цүнх | цүнхээ | one's own bag |
| малгай | малгайгаа | one's own hat |
| өрөө | өрөөгөө | one's own room |
One word to learn by heart: морь gives морио, one's own horse.
On top of a case ending
The reflexive can also sit after a case ending. It always comes last.
- гэр + т + ээ → гэртээ: at one's own home, to one's own home
- найз + тай + гаа → найзтайгаа: with one's own friend
- аав + д + аа → аавдаа: to one's own father
Тэр гэртээ байна.he ger-DAT-REFL be-PRES-FUT"He is at (his) home."
Тэр найзтайгаа ярьж байна.he friend-COM-REFL talk-CONV be-PRES-FUT"He is talking with his friend."
Own, or someone else's?
The reflexive is not just a polite extra: it changes the meaning. Compare:
- Тэр малгайгаа авсан. He took his own hat.
- Тэр түүний малгайг авсан. He took his (another person's) hat.
So when the thing belongs to the subject, use the reflexive and say nothing else. When it belongs to someone who is not the subject, use a possessive word such as миний, чиний or түүний.
With an order
In an order the subject is "you", so the reflexive means "your": Малгайгаа өмс! "Put your hat on!" Нэрээ бичээрэй. "Please write your name." This is the commonest place to hear it.
Go deeper in the grammar guide: The reflexive possessive · Mongolian etiquette and gestures
5Good to know
Nomin is right to carry the hat in her hands. People say the soul lives in a person's hat, so you never put on someone else's hat, even as a joke, and you never toss one, set one on the floor or step over one. Admiring a hat is fine; picking it up is not. A hat on a bed or a chest is where its owner put it, and it stays there.