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Mongolian Imperatives: Six Degrees of Asking

English makes one form do all the work and lets please and tone of voice carry the politeness. Mongolian puts the politeness inside the verb ending, which means an English speaker can be rude in Mongolian without hearing it.

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One English form, six Mongolian ones

English has a single imperative. Come in is the same word whether you say it to a child, to a colleague or to your wife's grandmother. Everything that softens it is added from outside the verb: please, would you, do come in, a rising tone, a smile. Strip those away and the bare form is harsh, which is why English speakers learn to pad it heavily.

Mongolian does the opposite. The register is built into the ending, so the choice of ending is the choice of manner. There is no padding word that rescues a form chosen wrongly, and уучлаарай (excuse me) is not a politeness word you can sprinkle on an order — it is itself one of these endings, on the verb уучлах (to forgive). So the first thing to learn here is not a paradigm. It is that you must decide, every time, how much distance to put between yourself and the person you are talking to.

Six forms carry that decision. Two of them you will use constantly, two you will use often, and two come up more rarely. Two further forms, which the method only lists, are set out at the end of the page as reading knowledge.

1. The bare stem: the immediate order

The dictionary gives a verb in –х. Take those two letters off and what remains is both the stem and the shortest imperative. Nothing is added:

Two spelling points. When the vowel in front of –х is a long one, it stays long: асуух (to ask) gives Асуу!, суух (to sit) gives Суу!, уух (to drink) gives Уу!, хийх (to do) gives Хий!. And one verb behaves oddly: ярих (to speak) has the stem ярь, with a soft sign, so the order is Ярь!, and with the polite pronoun in front of it, Та ярь! (Speak!).

In a sentence the imperative closes it, as every Mongolian predicate does, with everything else in front:

Also Билет ав! (Buy the ticket!), Эндээс гар! (Get out of here!), Самбарт оч! (Come to the blackboard!), Зүүн гар тийшээ эргэ! (Turn to your left!). This is the form for family, for close friends, for children, for the inside of a classroom or a truck cab. It is not the form for a stranger, a shopkeeper, an official or anyone older than you.

2. Doubling the stem, which softens it

Say the bare stem twice and the order becomes an invitation: Та ор ор! (Do come in!), Чи суу суу! (Have a seat!), Зогс зогс! (Let's stop there!).

This is the one place on the page where an English speaker's instinct points the wrong way. In English, repeating an order makes it harder — Sit. Sit! is what you say to a dog that is ignoring you. In Mongolian the repetition does the work that please does in English. If you remember nothing else, remember that doubling is warmer, not angrier.

3. –аарай: the invitation turned towards later

This is the everyday polite imperative, and it is not a stronger version of the bare stem — it means something different. It asks for an action in the future, when the moment comes, rather than this second. It has four harmonic shapes, –аарай / –оорой / –ээрэй / –өөрэй, chosen by the vowels of the stem; the full set of four-form suffixes is laid out once in the dossier, in the four-form suffix table, and this page simply uses it.

The verb байх (to be) inserts a г: байгаарай, as in Сайн сууж байгаарай! (Stay well!).

In use, the forward-looking sense shows clearly:

And: Дараа ирээрэй! (Come again!), Ном аваарай! (Take the book!), Сайхан унтаарай! (Sleep well!), Сайхан хооллоорой! (Enjoy your meal!), Туслаарай! (Help!), Чи багштайгаа уулзаарай! (Go and see your teacher.), Та манайд маргааш өглөө очоорой! (Come to our place tomorrow morning.). The same ending sits inside two phrases you will hear on your first day, Уучлаарай (excuse me) and Сайн яваарай (safe journey) — as set phrases those belong to the page on greetings and leave-taking, but the ending is this one.

A useful consequence: because –аарай points at a later moment, it is the natural form for instructions, advice and good wishes, and it is almost always the safe choice when you are not sure. If you are a guest, a customer or a learner, reach for –аарай by default.

4. –ч: asking for a service out loud

Spoken Mongolian has a request form in –ч, attached after a vowel — a long one in most of the attested forms — and used when you are asking somebody to do something for you. The method gives it in sentences rather than as a full paradigm, so take the attested forms as they stand and do not build new ones by analogy: ажиллач, ирээч, өгөөч, заагаач.

Very often it lands on өгөх (to give) placed after a first verb, which turns the request into "do it for me": Та надад үүнийг монголоор орчуулаад өгөөч. (Could you translate this into Mongolian for me?), Намайг найзуудтайгаа танилцуулж өгөөч. (Introduce me to your friends.), Чи гараад ирээч. (Come on out and join me.), Надад заагаад өг. (Show me.). The two-verb chaining that this depends on belongs to the page on converbs; here, notice only that the request ending goes on the last verb, never on the first.

5. –ъя, –ъё, –ье: counting yourself in

English needs an extra word for this, let's, and it is not an imperative at all. Mongolian has a real first-person form, used when the speaker intends to act, alone or with the listener:

үзэх (to watch)Үзье!Let's watch!
бичих (to write)Бичье!Let's write!
авах (to take)Авъя!Let's take it!
явах (to go)Явъя!Let's go!
унтах (to sleep)Унтъя!Let's sleep!
хайх (to look for)Хайя!Let's look for it!
тоглох (to play)Тоглоё!Let's play!

Across the forms the method gives, the pattern is readable: after a stem ending in a consonant a hard sign appears with back-vowel stems (Авъя, Явъя, Унтъя) and a soft sign with front-vowel stems (Үзье, Бичье), while a stem ending in a vowel or in й takes the ending directly (Хайя). The method's Тоглоё, on the stem тогл–, shows a linking о in place of the hard sign; take it as it stands rather than building others on it. A full sentence: Тэдэнтэй хамт тоглоё. (Let's play with them.)

6. –цгаа–: all of us, together

When the point is that a group acts jointly, the suffix –цгаа– goes in before the first-person ending: Орос руу хамт явцгаая! (Let's go to Russia together!), Хамтдаа тоолж сурцгаая! (Let's learn to count together!), Одоо зах дээр очицгооё. (Let's go to the market now.), Орой болж байна, гэртээ харьцгаая! (It's getting late, let's head home!). The suffix itself, its harmonic shapes and its position in the stack belong to the page on –цгаа; what matters here is the effect, which English can only get with extra words like together or all of us.

The two forms you only need to recognise

The method's appendix records two more. A third-person imperative in –г, as in ажиллаг (let him work), and a solemn form in –гтун / –гтүн, as in ажиллагтун, which belongs to proclamations, ceremony and older written style. The method lists them without sentence examples, so treat them as reading knowledge: recognise them, do not produce them.

битгий: telling someone not to

There is no negative ending for the imperative. The word битгий goes in front of the verb and the verb keeps whatever form it already had:

With the bare stem: Та нар битгий суу! (Don't sit down!), Чи битгий их ярь! (Don't talk so much!). With –аарай, which keeps the softer register intact: Та битгий мартаарай! (Please don't forget.), Битгий аваарай! (Don't take it.), Тийшээ битгий яваарай! (Don't go over there.), Манайд битгий ирээрэй! (Don't come to our place.), Та Москва хотод битгий удаан байгаарай! (Don't stay long in Moscow.). So the choice of register survives the negation: you can forbid politely or bluntly, and the ending is what decides which. The place of битгий among the other negative words — үгүй, биш, байхгүй, –гүй — belongs to the page on negation.

Choosing, in one table

What you wantFormExample
Act now; close friend, childbare stemИр!
The same, softenedstem doubledТа ор ор!
Act later; anyone at all–аарайДараа ирээрэй!
Do me a favour–чӨгөөч.
I will, or we will–ъя / –ъё / –ьеЯвъя!
We do it jointly–цгаа–Явцгаая!
Don'tбитгий + any of themБитгий мартаарай!

One last practical point. These endings are short, and three of them differ only in a vowel you may not yet hear reliably — аваарай, очоорой, ирээрэй, өгөөрэй. On the page you can see the difference; in a room you have to hear it, and the ending is where a Mongolian ear places the manner of the whole sentence. This is one of the forms worth listening to many times before trying to produce it.

Exercises: the six imperative forms

Choose the form the page describes. Each question has one correct answer.

  1. "Listen!" to a close friend, from сонсох: ___
  2. "Sit down!" from суух: ___
  3. "Ask!" from асуух: ___
  4. "Speak!" from ярих: ___
  5. Repeating the stem, as in Та ор ор!, makes the order ___.
  6. Polite imperative of явах: ___
  7. Polite imperative of очих: ___
  8. Polite imperative of ирэх: ___
  9. Polite imperative of өгөх: ___
  10. Сайн сууж ___ (Stay well!)
  11. Сайхан ___ (Sleep well!)
  12. Сайхан ___ (Enjoy your meal!)
  13. Та ___ мартаарай! (Please don't forget.)
  14. After битгий, the verb is ___.
  15. битгий can stand in front of ___.
  16. "Let's go!" from явах: ___
  17. "Let's watch!" from үзэх: ___
  18. "Let's write!" from бичих: ___
  19. "Let's play!" from тоглох: ___
  20. Орос руу хамт ___ (Let's go to Russia together!)
  21. Чи надад монгол хэл ___ (Teach me Mongolian, would you.)
  22. Та надад үүнийг монголоор орчуулаад ___ (Could you translate this for me?)
  23. ажиллагтун is the ___ form.
  24. ажиллаг is an imperative of the ___ person.
  25. You invite an elderly neighbour to come tomorrow. You say ___
  26. Which ending includes the speaker in the action?

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